Well, I already did my part and offered whatever I can give.
But to join name with her to rent a place, no way am I going to
bind myself to her that way. She has her son to do that.
If he dont, well, its safer to be out of Singapore, out of her
reach for at least 2 years at least.
The CPF will still be sitting in the a/cs, so we see when she
comes to her senses then decide again what need to be done.